Here's the deal: If you could be
anyone in the world, who would you be?
Seriously, anyone! Pick a person; you can choose a specific person from the present or even the past,
or you can just choose a description (
e.g.: the richest person ever, the happiest person alive, the...).
There are two options to talk about here:
a) If you chose a
specific person, for example Beckham.
So this is a real situation here, I asked this from one of my friends and he said Beckham, and it really started bugging me:
If I were Beckham, would I be Beckham?
I'm asking this
in the sense that if I was born in Beckham's place, in his body,
would I have had the motivation and
ambition to become the most famous football player of my time? Would I have been able to exploit my skills and talents in such an amazing way?
And the following question has really really really bothered me since:
What am I NOT bringing out of myself? Am I destroying a great person, am I
choking myself by
not using my time well enough, by
wasting too much energy and time and
focus on things that aren't important instead of
becoming the MOST that
I could be?
b) If you chose a
description of a person (the smartest..., the richest..., a Nobel prize winner, the fastest..., the strongest...), then
Why aren't you that person??? It's like... this is the most self-reflective question ever and I think there are huge masses of people out there that
don't really
think about this question at all:
Who do you want to be?
If you want to be the happiest person in the world, then go! Have at it, live your life like such! If you want to be someone really skilled at something:
GO! DO IT! If you want to
embrace the world and travel and meet people -
what are you waiting for?! Do you want to be an artist - someone who paints and designs his/her
own living room and bedroom in funky and wicked ways, go ahead!
Why aren't who you want to be?
And that's the
best part of living here and now! We have so many
opportunities to choose from on who we want to be - and yet so many people are just going through
the norm procedure of education and workplaces because they
forget to ask themselves the question: who do I want to be?